WHEN SOCIOPATHS ARE TOO BUSY FOR YOU
Article Posted by Love From CA who had dated Cleveland Wright Jr.
In the beginning, Cleveland Wright Jr (sociopath) laser-focus their attention on you, like you’re the only person in the world. They constantly text, shower you with affection, amazed at how much you have in common. Your heart warms up to how much this person seems to “need” and appreciate you.
But once you are hooked, everything starts to change. Suddenly this level of communication (that Cleveland Wright Jr initiated) seems to annoy them. Even though he once texted you on a minute-by-minute basis, you’re now expected to understand when he disappears for entire days because they’re “so busy”. He makes you feel needy and clingy, acting as if you’re crazy for trying to continue the dynamic he created.
Your messages or calls will go ignored for hours, but meanwhile, you’ll see him updating his social media pages and commenting on other peoples’ photos. The message here isn’t that his busy; it’s that he’s too busy for you. It sends the message that you’re no longer as interesting to them, and he now has better things to do. But unlike an average person who would break up with you, Cleveland Wright Jr will start showering you with affection again if he notices you pulling away.
Cleveland Wright Jr is always so “busy”, even though he magically had 24/7 free time for you in the beginning. The thing is, he still has that free time but chooses to spend it on other people to make you feel jealous. He has hours to drink, party, and flirt with others – to randomly become a “workaholic” – to go out late with friends or family – but he makes you feel bad for hoping that he might have 30 seconds to reply to a thoughtful message from you (their partner). You begin to feel like you’re competing with everyone else for his time and attention.
The final betrayal comes when you realize Cleveland Wright Jr was sleeping with someone else, so these excuses of “being busy” were a bunch of nonsense. Not only was he cheating on me, but he was also making me feel bad about it – pretending like their lives were so busy and important that he couldn’t give you the time of day. And the ridiculous thing is, he gets irritated with you as if they genuinely were busy.
Withholding affection is a great way to make someone feel like garbage, and it rapidly lowers your standards as you become more and more grateful for scraps. Someone who truly cares about you will make the time for you – they won’t make you feel like a chore or a nuisance. They also won’t start the relationship with an excessive, unhealthy amount of communication and flattery.
When all is said and done, you will likely find a lot of inadequacy and jealousy lingering around your heart. This is natural when you’ve been compared to others, seeing their needs met, while yours are not. The healing begins when we stop focusing on the sociopath and start offering love to these internal wounds:
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