WHEN SOCIOPATHS ARE TOO BUSY FOR YOU
Article Posted by Love From CA who had dated Cleveland Wright Jr.
In the beginning, Cleveland Wright Jr (sociopath) laser-focus their attention on you, like you’re the only person in the world. They constantly text, shower you with affection, amazed at how much you have in common. Your heart warms up to how much this person seems to “need” and appreciate you.
But once you are hooked, everything starts to change. Suddenly this level of communication (that Cleveland Wright Jr initiated) seems to annoy them. Even though he once texted you on a minute-by-minute basis, you’re now expected to understand when he disappears for entire days because they’re “so busy”. He makes you feel needy and clingy, acting as if you’re crazy for trying to continue the dynamic he created.
Your messages or calls will go ignored for hours, but meanwhile, you’ll see him updating his social media pages and commenting on other peoples’ photos. The message here isn’t that his busy; it’s that he’s too busy for you. It sends the message that you’re no longer as interesting to them, and he now has better things to do. But unlike an average person who would break up with you, Cleveland Wright Jr will start showering you with affection again if he notices you pulling away.
Cleveland Wright Jr is always so “busy”, even though he magically had 24/7 free time for you in the beginning. The thing is, he still has that free time but chooses to spend it on other people to make you feel jealous. He has hours to drink, party, and flirt with others – to randomly become a “workaholic” – to go out late with friends or family – but he makes you feel bad for hoping that he might have 30 seconds to reply to a thoughtful message from you (their partner). You begin to feel like you’re competing with everyone else for his time and attention.
The final betrayal comes when you realize Cleveland Wright Jr was sleeping with someone else, so these excuses of “being busy” were a bunch of nonsense. Not only was he cheating on me, but he was also making me feel bad about it – pretending like their lives were so busy and important that he couldn’t give you the time of day. And the ridiculous thing is, he gets irritated with you as if they genuinely were busy.
Withholding affection is a great way to make someone feel like garbage, and it rapidly lowers your standards as you become more and more grateful for scraps. Someone who truly cares about you will make the time for you – they won’t make you feel like a chore or a nuisance. They also won’t start the relationship with an excessive, unhealthy amount of communication and flattery.
When all is said and done, you will likely find a lot of inadequacy and jealousy lingering around your heart. This is natural when you’ve been compared to others, seeing their needs met, while yours are not. The healing begins when we stop focusing on the sociopath and start offering love to these internal wounds:
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a fake person lives a fake life…it’s logical. Thx Love From CA x
☝️FACTS ?? You’re Welcome ?
This is so true. I always felt like I had to show and prove. Do more. I always felt like I wasn’t enough. Doing enough. Narcissist always busy. I hated it. Made me feel like I wasn’t doing enough with myself. I don’t know why I keep torturing myself mentally and emotionally.
This is really really well explained LFCA big time!!!!!!!!!!
You hit the nail on head describing how narcissists operate. narcissists are stifling, unsupportive, takers, and unrewarding they are emotional parasites. If you are a people pleaser they will use you again and again. Run as if your life depends on it. Narcissists are full of shit and have nothing good offer.
Thank you LOVE from CA.
Accurate description of my bastard ex
That snake ruined my mental health.
Love from India
They mind fuck us, untill we are not sure what day of the week it is …I was a very strong lady , now I can’t get out of the house ..
☝️Yesss! The mindfuckery is real. ?☠️
Be kind to yourself, focus well on your healing…it takes time but with determination and without allowing the narc to poison your mind, heart and soul, you will get there, I’m trying hard to do exactly that.
☝️This is true. Healing from narcissistic abuse takes time and don’t think it’s going to happen overnight. ?
☝️Thank you for reading and commenting ✍️
You are not kidding! He appeared to be in high demand always on his phone, getting in and out of his car all day…yet when he was working 12 hours a day 7 days a week he claimed he had nothing better to do….total mind fu**ery.
Haha! Yesss! Cleveland Wright Jr makes out his in high demand and probably is with weak-willed women/men, as it’s easier prey when he targets vulnerable women.
Yep. So true. My ex narc acted like he was the busiest and most important mofo in the world even though he was usually just watching movies or reading, etc. OMG, and so true about they get mad if you call them when they don’t expect it and they aren’t in the mood to talk. When we first started dating I called him and he was in the middle of moving a piece of furniture. He snapped at me and said, “Why you calling me? I’m busy moving a table!”
busy online searching supply
busy hahaha following wannabes on instagram fake as they are
Social Media and dating sites are Cleveland Wright Jr and other narcissists playground. Easy prey for them than meeting people in real life. FACTS!!!
@ CAB => the sociopath is still actively ?❤️?on his exes profiles. SICK ?
I see what you mean ?
Hit Home Thank U I Spent
So Many Years Of My life Wanting
Acceptance From The Narcissists He Has Been Giving Me The Silent Treatment Since March…. And Last Week When I Contact Him He insulted Me With Such Disrespect. He Told Me To Stop Texting Him. It Was Truly HurtFul
I Struggle With Going No Contact.
Great Video today thank u
Yes, looking for new supply and cheating. spot on love from CA
@ Carol-Anne => Cleveland Wright Jr’s pattern = around November each year he will be out with the old supply in with the new supply ?
You got it right! I Just stop fuckin with a bitch nigga narcissist
Their energy is spent on trying to inflict pain. Their purpose in life is to destroy.
Be thankful we have the option to leave and to stay gone!!
I discarded him. Can’t be bothered.
Have gone No Contact!
Best thing to do for your sanity and healing!
Thank you, love from CA
☝️It’s the best feeling discarding the Narcissist. You’ve beaten them at their own game on so many levels, and you also regain control by going NC. They are irrelevant ✌️ #winning
100% True. Your welcome. ❤️??
That’s the way. Go no contact and forget that you ever knew them. (You never really did anyway, just a facade they created). Nothing good can come from having them in your life or in your head. They are the ultimate net negative with no upside.
100% True. ?❤️??
I’m newly in the healing stages from an 8 year ride with what I can see now is an obvious narcissist who is a recent former prisoner and someone who I loved beyond measure. You make much sense keep posting, I need all the understanding and strength I can get. THANK YOU!!!
YUP! LOL they re so pathetic, they can never be honest and live honest lives, their whole lives and being are a facade, fake! WALK AWAY FROM THESE LOSERS!
☝️TRUTH ?8mths for me was too long to be around his childish games. Mindfuckery… Don’t walk, RUN!!! ?♀️
Another bless article !!! Busy plotting! Thanks love from CA your articles are best. Bless you
Thank you ?
Thanks Love from CA. This was part of the missing information I need. Everytime I find myself ruminating or trying to fill some blanks, I watch a related video so I can wake up lol. I came across your articles and so many remaining blanks are being filled. Also this sites articles-videos and very very helpful since you are tapping into the mentality, habits and thoughts of the narcissistic Black male. It is very relatable and helpful. Like you are so on point. Give thanks.
Also my ex said he wanted to be free during the discard phase. I replied that I wanted to be free snd I was. I meant it but I couldnt figure out what he meant by being free and sounding so exhausted. My initial reaction was trying to find what of my own dysfunction could have caused this but really after hearing all of this I understand exactly why his ass was tired and feeling oppressed lol. Bwoyyy.
You’re Welcome ❤️??
I am leaving the whole entire state to get away from this narc and his family. Now the supply/ female narc has been exposed now he wants to Hoover. ? It’s like leave us alone doesn’t resonate with them at all. Grown toddlers with mental issues. Nice break down of how they pretend to be so busy with public destruction.
☝️@ Maddy S – True… I can relate. Once you expose these creatures and their flying monkeys/enablers, they go into hiding. It’s quite pathetic! They can dish it out but they can’t take it in return. And then they make up pathetic lies in their smear campaign and call us CRAZY. ? Not once have we contacted them or their families/friends/business associates, but it’s ok for them to make contact with our people. DOUBLE STANDARDS!!! These people have shown us their narcissistic traits. COWARDS!!! We never knew these people existed until they made contact, hence the reason why we showcase them all on this website.
Even in regards to Cleveland Wright Jr’s new supply. When will they not wake up and understand if you want to make contact with our people with your BS lies you will be exposed on this site. They don’t know the full story, so wake the FUCK UP!!
Cleveland Wright Jr’s supply, LW from Darwin NT Australia will be exposed shortly for her participation in contacting the victims business associates with her BS lies.
Thank you CAB for this website. My friend posted an article on her facebook page, that’s how I came across the website. I can’t wait for more as they are so on point and correct. how do I access the sites youtube videos and the coaching packages that I keep reading about?
@Maddy S – I have DM you with the details. x
@ CAB => ur so lucky chick for not having a relationship with this sociopath. ?only if we could turn back time ?
Busy doing nonsense and evil: thank Yah that He made me wiser…. 🙂 great article
Thank you. He is always busy. Now I know why.
Love this!!! Ahhhh!!! Yes!!!
This is so right on. I have had more relationships w narcissist and those w narcissistic qualities than I’d like to admit. I laugh when they play these games now because I’m onto them after years of mistaking them for another loving human.
WOW!!! That’s exactly how my narcissist was. I really thought he was so busy. I was always available to him. I would put others aside to hang out with him because I felt I had to catch him while he was available. I put friends and family aside for his sorry ass. WOW. I’m so glad I kicked him to the curb!!!
He doesn’t know what happened. I did it suddenly. He has texted me several times. I did not nor do not respond. But I didn’t know that was a thing. “Pretending to be so busy?” ? ? WOW. Thank you!!!!
spot on. Narcs are fuckin crazy man . fuckem all.
They do this to better their image and secondly it is a stealthy way to always have the control of the communication. It is just another manipulation technique they use.
So true about grooming. The narc would get angry and say, “you know how I am.” As if that justified his temper. He was attempting to groom me.to.accept it. And he knew I was strong. He def attempted to groom me. Also, he hates supply commenting on post and pictures. Even if it’s 100 comments. But he feels like he can comment on yours. He grooms women to accept not being able to be public “at first”. That’s just because all his other supply won’t know abo it each other.
I stop trusting him along time agoM when he stopped coming over I always felt like he was cheating on me or something like that?
I’ve been learning about all this and i can literally attach a story to everything that you talk about on here and your YouTube vids.. I always wondered what I did wrong and these helped me put it all together and realize my ex is a miserable narcissist that has many masks and she prayed on me cause she seen something in me that she liked for her supply. Keep exposing these toxic scumbags!!
@ Kevin S – Thank you, Kevin. We wish there would be more sites available to expose these “scumbags”. We started this site for that reason, to expose Cleveland wright Jr as he preys on women from online dating sites and social media. We’re here to help women and raise awareness of this individual.
Cleveland Wright Jr defiantly preys on women of a high standard, Women with financial independence, status, connections. But he prefers to target women for financial gain as his too lazy to work, wants you to pay for his flights to your country, pay his bills, child support, wants your money to help pay for his other girlfriends lavish gifts, and for his house and car payments.. This guy is flat out BROKE… Every year he refinances his credit because he can’t afford anything.
If you lend this guy money, don’t expect to get it back as like all narcissists, “what is yours is theirs.”
Their lazy and most are bumms and broke af….it’s a lie they lie about everything in their life !!!! Pitiful dark empty Souls they will go into hiding and pretend to be busy because they are always depressed and trying to compete with those who are successful in life these people are miserable seeds of Satan from hell
yoooo omg facts!!!! Lazy broke af bums lmaooo omg and always trying to complete with those who are successful I swear . So much lies . Being busy all of a sudden and communicating differently and when you catch them they always have anger or a excuse as if there should be no reason that your intuition is telling you something otherwise meanwhile they ain’t doing shit for you and only make themselves present when they want something or to try and boast about themselves or something they think makes them look good . And then back to the bs . Smh
Triangulation with WhatsApp and laptop computer…. sickening. marriage proposal for what. To compete with your cell phone……
on point. busy getting supply. cheating and grooming their next supply.
So true..??They are true con artist?
☝️@Charlotte – This is TRUE… On my dinner date, I told a story to Cleveland Wright Jr how I was scammed financially by a guy I met online.
A few days later he tried the same tactic. His sob story was that he needed $1k to help him pays his bills and keep his house… WTF? ?Just because I was scammed, what? you think I wouldn’t have learnt my lesson… ?
Once I returned home from my travels he again requested $1k. He put on this desperation act that he was going to lose his house and he had to pay child support… blah blah blah… As I explained to him at the time, well if you kept your dick in your pants you wouldn’t be in this kind of a mess… ?♀️The sob story continued blaming his baby mamas for setting him up. WHATEVER!!! Pathetic really coming from a grown man that should have known better… ?♀️
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