Sociopaths Social Media & Online Dating
It can be said that social media and the online world can be blamed for producing or initiating narcissistic behaviour. But the fact of the matter is, narcissism has always existed and social media has just given them an extra tool to terrorise individuals.
Sociopath Cleveland Wright Jr and narcissists use social media for a variety of reason however, the main one being to feed an over inflated ego and hide behind technology to conceal their many identities. In our Sunday live session many followers commented how they had found their narcissistic partners with multiple social media accounts, sometimes using language and pictures which they did not recognise. Whilst others commented how they had caught their partners out and confronted them only to be lied to.
It just goes to show that their social media usage and profiling goes to serve as an ‘extra’ mask. With fake profiles you can be whoever you want to be without ever being found out. This disguise is dangerous and can be thought of as a predatory behaviour. You can find out a lot about a person by just their bio, social media sites such as Facebook, you can learn quite a bit about the person in the ‘about me’ section. Similarly on Instagram or Snapchat you can find a lot about a person by pictures and some sites have a location or ‘tag yourself’ option displaying all the places that you have visited or places you are at. This type of information provides answers for personality types such as these. So I urge you to be careful what you choose to display and disclose on social media. You don’t know who’s watching or following you!
Online dating is a playground for Cleveland Wright Jr and narcissists alike. Its like a catalogue of prey, they can pick and choose who they want. While malignant narcissists can be found anywhere and everywhere and there are certainly decent people on dating websites, the online world of dating provides predators with a platform where they can gain access to multiple victims without accountability.
Online dating gives malignant narcissists and sociopaths access to numerous sources of what is known as narcissistic supply – people who can provide them with praise, admiration, and resources – without any need for any form of investment, commitment or accountability. These digital platforms also enable Cleveland Wright Jr and narcissists to construct a very convincing and compelling false mask that lures potential targets into various scams. But perhaps the biggest ‘scam’ is when a narcissistic predator ‘cons’ his or her target into an abusive relationship, while presenting himself or herself as the ideal partner.
As you can see from the information presented on this website how Cleveland Wright Jr preys and cons his way into white women’s hearts and falsely presents himself as an ideal partner.
This is easy for Cleveland Wright jr and narcissists to do online, as emotional predators can ‘morph’ into whatever identity they need in order to hook new victims and also ‘mirror’ their victims by finding out more about them through social media, as many apps now offer the ability to link to social media profiles. Predators can also adapt their profiles to create an image of themselves that appeal to their potential victims; a majority of online dating users have been shown to have profiles that stray from the truth in some capacity (Wood, 2012).
Here are some other examples of how Cleveland Wright Jr and narcissists may use social media:
1. To triangulate.
Social media is a veritable playground for malignant narcissists. It gives them easy access to multiple victims and the ability to manufacture love triangles in covert, insidious ways. In order to understand how and exactly why narcissists use these platforms for such petty power plays, it’s essential that we remember that they tend to be insatiable in their attention-seeking and their desire to create harems of people who adore them. They will, of course, deny that they are doing this – and it’s easy to convince anyone who is suspicious of their behaviour that such a focus on their online behaviour is “crazy.”
Now, it’s certainly possible for someone lower on the spectrum of toxicity to aggravate their partners with their lack of discretion and loyalty without meaning to; sometimes garden-variety jerks or cheaters are not even fully cognisant they could be caught. However, true, full-fledged narcissists create love triangles deliberately in order to provoke their significant others. They enjoy seeing their reactions to their despicable behaviour. They trespass the boundaries of their relationships frequently and with malice, with the intention of skirting accountability and with callous disregard for the feelings of their victims.
Narcissistic partners can flirt with numerous people by sending them messages on Facebook, inappropriately commenting on their photos with sexual or obscene messages for all to see, ‘following’ a number of shady accounts, as well as posting photos of themselves with exes, crushes, and people with whom they’re having affairs, all under the guise of them being ‘friends.’ Should their victims ever call them out on their strange behaviour, the narcissist will then gaslight the victim into thinking he or she is going crazy.
2. To infiltrate.
Imagine that narcissists are like trained spies in the figurative Trojan horses that are social media accounts. They want to know anything and everything about you, so that they can later use your wounds against you. Having access to your social media accounts can give them an easy way to find out more about your likes, interests, hobbies, and desires. These investigative digs are crucial for the narcissist’s love-bombing stage, where they are first pursuing you with ardent fervour and need to unearth your vulnerabilities to do so.
It is also valuable for the devaluation stage, as it allows them to assess whether you’d be a viable target for their pity ploys and mind games. Solution? Don’t give them much access in the first place. Be selective about who you allow into your online spaces and make your privacy a top priority. It’s a good rule to have regarding anyone, regardless of whether or not they’re toxic, because it allows intimacy to unfold naturally at its own pace. By doing this, you communicate an important boundary to those around you: trust has to be built organically and cannot be earned blindly.
3. To stalk and harass you.
We all know that narcissistic ex-partners don’t leave us alone, even after the ending of a relationship. Even if you block them, they can make fake social media accounts to ‘check up’ on your whereabouts. They can create anonymous e-mails to send you daily or monthly taunts. They can even troll you on your work-related platforms if you have a public presence. This is all a way to make you feel unsafe. It’s a way to cast micro-assaults on your agency online. To feel as if someone is always “watching,” and monopolising your existence, whether in real life or online, can be terrifyingly brutal. It creates a sense of violation that is unfortunately rarely prosecuted in realm of the law.
4. To bully and taunt.
Research reveals that online trolls possess the Dark Tetrad traits of narcissism, psychopathy and Machiavellians. In other words, online narcissists take sadistic pleasure in provoking others. So it’s no wonder that many narcissists in cyberspace are the types who hand out death and rape threats as easily as they would party invites. Misogynistic trolls are an example of how malignant narcissism manifests in digital spaces; they are cruel, they are callous and they are violent in their threats and insults.
Trolls will lie, exaggerate, and offend to get a response. What kind of person would do this? Some Canadian researchers decided to find out. They conducted two online studies with over 1,200 people, giving personality tests to each subject along with a survey about their Internet commenting behaviour. They were looking for evidence that linked trolling with the “Dark Tetrad” of personality traits: narcissism, Machiavellians, psychopathy, and sadism. They found that Dark Tetrad scores were highest among people who said trolling was their favourite Internet activity.” – Dr. Jennifer Golbeck, Internet Trolls Are Narcissists, Psychopaths and Sadists
Whether they’re harassing former exes or bullying complete strangers, empathy-deficient individuals are dangerous to the psyche of their victims. Online or offline, malignant narcissists leave a trail of ‘bodies’ wherever they go, leaving society and their future victims to pick up the pieces.
All of this comes as no surprise for those of us who have experienced the narcissist in our lives. They come in all shapes and sizes with a variety of never fulfilling promises. An excessive sense of entitlement with little to no regard for the rights and needs of others. Please do think about your social profiling and how much information you put out there for people to see. Please do look after yourself and develop robust boundaries.
Cleveland Wright Jr – Information presented to this website proves that this sociopath has passed every behaviour example mentioned above.
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Great Post!!!
I believe they all create multiple profiles, one for each of their false personas so that no stone is left unturned, meaning, no warm, breathing prospect is left behind. My narcissist ex also created multiple dating site profiles describing himself as Everyman, including men who were learned, men who couldn’t spell, men who wanted to get married, and men who just wanted to f**k.
One night, after living with him for 4 years, I discovered his 83 paid porn sites and his 6 POF profiles in his laptop. He also had 2 Facebook profiles to help keep the women separate.
The profile that had attracted me was oddly generic. I had always thought so. I had always wondered why a retired librarian with a Master’s degree would list his education as “high school” and his occupation as “tourist industry.” I see now that was an inside joke. He entertained a never-ending stream of women at his country home.
After I left the narcissist, I came to understand why he had listed his education as “high school.” He had admitted to hacking my computer, and all my accounts because, in his projections, I was cheating on him. He informed me every time I had been on POF which, in reality, was only after he had told me to pack my shit and go home. After I finally did leave without notice, I discovered our accounts were co-mingled. Whenever I went to my page to sign in, I saw his page instead, and from what I saw, it was clear why he had listed his education as “high school.” It would have been more appropriate to choose “GED.”
I told this story to my therapist, how for years, I had puzzled over why a guy with a Master’s degree would advertise himself as a guy with a high school education. Without me even finishing the story, he said, “He didn’t want to eliminate any prospects.”
One thing narcissists are not, when it comes to supply, is choosy.
Spot-on Kris – I experienced something similar (but not on your horrible scale!) I found out that my Nex had profiles on several sites prior to us getting together. He told me that he had deleted them all after we met because he had finally met the “woman of his dreams.”
Much later I found out he still had them. I confronted him, reminded him what he told me, he went on the attack, told me I was lying, told me it was too difficult to delete them, accused me of being jealous and not trusting him. This was his MO anytime I confronted him about his words not aligning with his actions, aka, his lies.
Total crazymaking…
I’m familiar with that, Leah. Mine was a little different. Initially upon being busted, he would delete the profiles, give me his passwords as proof he wouldn’t do it again, beg and bribe me not to leave him. Then he would smear campaign me as being crazy and having wrongly accused him of this behavior, and of being guilty of it myself, to his associates and to my face.
☝️ Truth – Like many and from the evidence of Cleveland Wright Jr, once they’ve been unmasked and caught out, they try to hide all their inappropriate behavior.
These people will never change. They’re still on numerous dating sites, multiple social media profiles. PREDATORS!!! ☠️
Thanks for your response. It is so true, they are not choosy.
Definitely not choosy. His page of contacts was like viewing a page of women who had been busted for prostitution and/or drugs, including underage girls, runaways and severe drug addicts. It could also have been medical photos of teenagers with Fetal Alcohol Syndrome, cocaine addiction and facial herpes.
Talk about denial. I saw it and couldn’t believe it.
One huge one for me is when men state, “I’m looking for intelligent conversation.” BIG LIE.
I indicated on my profile that I was an Atheist, and that, “…if you are strongly Xian, we probably won’t have much in common.” I met a man, and his email was kev4thelord@… I asked him about that, and he kept diverting the conversation. Yes, he thought that he was strongly Xian, but he also wanted to f*ck as many women as he could, no strings attached. Struggling here with the concept of a ‘strong christian personality’ who wants lots of fuck buddies, but that’s the nature of narcissism.
*great topic* Pay close attention to how they talk or text rather. Watch there USE of words & what exactly they say. Naturally if he is talking about himself all the time without even being asked a particular question or if he doesn’t ask any questions about her. But a simple way is to insult him and watch the reaction. *haha* but you have to remember they’re going to be idolizing you so make sure you have a clear conversation. For example ask about his mother and see how his response goes. If he says anything close to “My Mother is my best friends” Staaay on your toes!“ if he goes on to talk about how she made him a doggy bag or did his laundry because he wasn’t feeling good or busy at work and she stopped by to clean up his apartment… Also if he over corrects you. Granted getting your point across correctly is difficult over the internet but if he seems to be insulting you, talking down, always changing the subject back to himself to talk about all the Toys he has,… Especially if they Immediately demand Nudes! *haha*
Those profiles that are slung together or not fully filled out is a red flag to me because it suggests someone who does a lot of dating and can’t be bothered to fill out all the details. They go on loads of sites, cruising for likely victims.
Another red flag is if he is overly sweet and charming and uses cutesy language. Beware, he might be laying a trap.
The somatic crew will have lots of photos of themselves, some flexing muscles and showing off their physique. The women will submit professional photographs.
Thank you for the video chat today. interesting topic ?
If they say “No drama”. Take that as narcissist lingo for they will do shit that will upset any normal person but if you react normally you are “drama.” If every ex is now “friends” don’t walk RUN. They will boast about this as if it means they are so great. What this really means is when he is talking to them you are also one of the “friends”. They still have all of them on their list of people to fuck if no other options. And expect to frequently hear “maybe lets see” or something similar for future plans even if just trying to plan that very night. Yes they are still comparing options and haven’t decided who to give their time to yet. New and exciting almost always wins.
I can speak from personal experience. Much of this has to do with how easy these sites make it for narcissists to select the perfect prey. Many times, you have to answer an extensive list of questions designed to develop your personality profile and what you consider an ideal partnership. So, in essence, you offer detailed insight into who you are and who you want in a potential partner. It doesn’t get much easier for a narcissist to join the game after that.
Trolling narcs now know exactly what you want to hear, and they will initiate conversation based on mental notes they’ve taken from reading your profile. You said you like a witty sense of humor? Bam – here’s a witty message. You like chivalry? Of course, I don’t think it’s dead. It’s almost too easy. The dating site did all of the hard work.
Relationships with narcissists always following three distinct stages – idealize, devalue, discard. In the idealize stage it is essential that the narcissist do and say everything perfectly in order to completely trap you. It’s called this for a reason – the narcissist presents as the ideal partner to turn on your blinders and manipulate you until you’ve fallen head over heels.
Can you see why dating sites are prime hunting grounds? There are other textbook places individuals with narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) frequently use to find prey – churches, classes, and workplaces. Here’s the why behind each: You would never expect someone as cold and callous to befriend you at church, so you’re likely to view any advance automatically as genuine. Plus, many who’ve temporarily lost their way end up building a strong foundation at church, so the narc can easily find a co-dependent looking for love. Classes are a no-brainer because they have a roster. Again, you would never expect someone to sign up for an exercise class or academic course simply to prey on another member. You’re much more likely to find it charming that you two have similar interests and goals. If they’re on the roster, they must be there for a legitimate reason, right? And workplaces are another hot spot, because narcissists always seek positions of power and authority and this can be alluring to some. It’s hard not to blush when the boss is giving you extra attention.
There you have it. Even the most innocent connection can quickly take a turn for the worse. Narcissists are highly skilled manipulators and, unfortunately, you can never be too careful.
Thank you for your comment @Sara B x
My ex-narcissist, actually admitted to me (not an accidental admittance) that he would get on Craigslist under the personal section (women seeking men) and would talk to girls who posted BBW on their ad. He would respond to these ads with nothing but praise, admiration and “love” to give. He would have them send him pictures in which he would “act shocked” (his words) that people judged them so hardly in regards to weight and looks.
He would then set up a time and place for them to meet, he would go to the specified location and find a place to sit and watch. He told me he would wait for them to arrive, adjust positions if needed in order to see her, and watch. He’d watch her look at her phone, check the time, send him emails in which he would reply with telling her she deserves to be called names, she has to be stupid to think someone like him would actually show, derogatory names and statements, etc. He would watch her reaction.
He said he would watch her expression as she read the email, has watched them cry and leave, simply because it made him feel better to know he’s superior to others and can make them as well as break them. Total control.
Yes, they do prey on the weak, to prove to themselves that they are not like the rest of us, they are better and in control.
In regards to it not being an accidental admittance, he said that he doesn’t do it anymore because I have showed him what it’s like to ACTUALLY love, I’ve made him a “better man “. He admitted his disgusting behavior, all just to make me feel special and that I am the only one he’s ever loved. The only one to be able to make him a better person. Only a ploy, to reel you in and keep you in. (About a month or so after this, I found some of these ads/responses not even a day old, he didn’t stop).
They are calculated, cold, deceptive and seriously, out of this world. Stay away.
YEEEESSSSS!! A narcissist’s target is someone who is looking for love, lonely and a little vulnerable. Trusting and sweet. A nice person who is easy to con.
The detailed questions you answer and the narratives you write up makes your dating profile simply a menu for the predator which is perfectly easy pickings.
I always tell people to be brief and not ‘gush’ about themselves if they are using dating sites and know the red flags. If the wolf in sheeps clothing is on the prowl, which it probably is, divulging too much information about your likes and dislikes gives the creature its disguise; the deception that is tailor-made for you.
Mine met me through a dating site, 2 years later triangulated me after an argument by going to a dating site and hooking 3 new victims, followed a few days later by some intense trauma bonding that included deleting (only) 2 of those. A year later when I was set up and then brutally discarded, after I caused the narcissist to collapse, the thing was discharged from a psychiatric hospital and 14 days later my replacement was hooked off a dating site. Psyche ward to dating site.
The 3rd ‘collectable’ from that big triangulation was kept on the back burner as an insurance policy by way of periodic and very subtle hints being dropped.
A relationship with a narcissist is insidious drip-feed poison! Death by a thousand cuts.
Oh my goodness I’m so glad to see this topic. I’ve wanted to ask it myself.
My narcissist has claimed from the very beginning that he couldn’t and wouldn’t ever cheat on me. That I’m the only women he’s never cheated on. Although he’s been accusing me of cheating for the past ten years I found it odd if he really believed that why is he still here! This was also the man that wouldn’t even have internet said it was the ruin of relarionships. For 13 of our 14 years these were the things he said. I got so tired of defending myself about the ridiculous things like cheating. Anyone that knew me knew I wasn’t that type of person. Faithful as an old hound.
Never really crossed my mind to check on him, check his phone and see what he was doing. But he turned me into an obsessive person that was confused and looking for answers.
So about 12 months ago his behavior changed so suddenly that I knew there had to be something going on. And the first time I picked up his phone there it was I felt like someone had just slapped me. Lots and lots of dating sites, hook up sites for sex, one nite stands and more. I felt hurt beyond belief and devastated for sure. No wonder he had been accusing me. Good Lord look what the hell he was doing. Single, looking for something more, tired of drama, needing inspiration, wanting to share all of this are just a few of his profile slogans. Each I’ve seen scarred me deeper. When I confronted him like any women would do he blamed it on other people using his phone (he never let’s anyone use his phone), said it was all spam and even blamed me and said I put it there! And said I would never ever see such as that again. And for 12 months I never looked once that it wasn’t there. Now his story has changed to “it’s not what it appears”. Well then what is it exactly?
How far he’s taken it I don’t want to know. Fact of the matter is he’s only gonna lie. It’s hurtful. It’s shameful. It’s an embarrassment. To know he’s out there talking shit to these women and telling them how great he is just makes me sick. Just because one says “hi” to him I end up with black eyes.
Narcissists troll dating sites looking for attention. They’re also looking to see who engages with them and who is swayed by their charm. People with confidence ask questions, know what they want, and walk away when they see red flags. The narcissist knows right away that a person with strong self esteem won’t be easily fooled by them so they don’t waste their time. Instead they focus their time + attention on those of us that ignore the red flags, don’t to ask too many questions and stroke their ego.
The Internet offers quick, easy relationships for a narcissist as does a long distance relationship. A narcissist can get all the praise, adulation and love he needs with loads of empty promises + lies, all of which require little effort on his part. When you start to expect anything from a narcissist, watch out. That’s when his true colors come out.
the online dating sites do provide numerous opportunities for an NPD to “hunt”.
Example: Just a very, very short time after my divorce, my son came to me and said…….”Mom is dating again” and I simply said something like “she’s moving on with her life”. He then looked me square in the eyes and said “NO, I mean she’s dating A LOT”. Right then I knew she was most likely trolling the internet dating sites, “on the hunt” for the next “victim”.
This really “bugged me” as it told me she was bringing in multiple men right into our son’s lives and she had no clue as to how they would affect them……and she didn’t care.
That’s the tragic part. They’ll parade any new squeeze in front of their children with no thought at all for the effect that it has on them.
The one that I knew has done this to his children twice since his ex dumped him. Two women in two years.
Heck, they’ll even let this person that they barely know, babysit their children! Reckless disregard. That’s who they are all over.
On the day my Narc left me he was in such a hurry to run off with the new toy that he left his phone behind. I have never wanted to go through a man’s phone, but in this situation I did. The stuff I found in there was appalling. There were many women thanking him for adding them on one site, lots of text messages to various women on other sites. The one he ran off with is someone he met online. It was then that I discovered she had moved to the area “for him” (his words), when in fact she moved to be closer to her family. He made it all about him and preyed on her to provide his next home by moving in together. She thinks she’s found this wonderful man. One day she will come home and he and his stuff will be gone.
Live Chat was lit ? thank you!!!
@ Christine H
Yes, Yes, and Yes.
it’s an ideal playground for them. I’ll bet the narcissist’s we’re thrilled when online dating became a “thing”…they must have felt like all their dreams had finally come true.
A platform whereby they are able to post pics of themselves (yay!), sugarcoat a profile detailing every fantastic quality and interest they have (double yay!) and then sit back and wait for the supply to flood their inbox with “winks”(triple yay!) and if that’s not enough they have the gullibility of lonely people looking to connect with others —which they take full advantage of.
if you were a narcissist wouldn’t your whole world be filled with excitement at the thought of all that sweet attention you’ll be drinking in??
I do think they look for prey online. Whether it be dating apps, hookup apps, Facebook, Instagram, snapchat, Craigslist, the possibilities are endless.
found my ex narc had signed up for ashleymadison and adult friend finder before we met. He made up some lies about why he was on there, said he thought it was to make friends.
also found him replying to Craigslist personal ads, sending dick pics to women on kik, and adding hundreds of women on all social media platforms.
Its easy supply for them. Maybe not quality, but quantity. Also, it’s instant gratification.
I loved the live chat and topic today. Keep up with the good work ?
Yes, they do. Narcissists are predators, that’s how they spend most of their waking moments. Being predators online. Always for casual sex. Anything will go and the kinkier and more casual the better. Men and women and threesomes, the sky’s the limit, I think, depending on the particular Narcissist. They’ll use multiple dating sites using multiply fake ids and profiles, and do the same for all their social media accounts, chat rooms, etc.
My readings tell me this is a common trait among those with NPD.
Hi Ladies,
I went on a date and here is what I now see with my awakened self of what happened:
1- talking Bad about his mother
2- telling me all of his exes are psycho
3- all of his exes were useless
4- complaining the majority of the date from the food to the price of things
5- has a hacking demonic laugh
6- talking negatively about his sister
7- admitting to using porn for years upon years
8- admitting to having being convicted of physical abuse to his ex
9- leaving his ex bc she is useless
10- blaming everyone for not helping him in his life
11-telling me that one girl from his work will be pissed off if she found out he drove this far for a first date bc she is immature in a txt 5 min before the date! (Triangulating me already!)
12- telling me he hates drama
13- telling me he is cheap
14- ? I can go on and on!
I am so blessed to have you ladies as my mentor so I know I can discern this crap and not further this crap again.
@ Rachel H – Wow sister wow. So many red flags and it’s amazing that you recognized them ALL. I hope you’re giving yourself a pat on the back. Also, your Twin Flame is no cakewalk either lol! They will trigger the hell outta you and push you to heal anything that isn’t in unconditional love. Enjoy the time you have before meeting them. ??
@ Rachel H – As @Carrie E mention, stay away from this one.
Everything you mentioned are the signs I should have stayed away from CWJR. I saw these signs from the get-go.
Being a covert you don’t get to see all these signs but over time you do.
Looking back now let’s just say he is a very negative person, has low self-esteem, thinks every one of his exes and baby mamas is out to get him, his bosses have no idea how great he is and the only person in the buffalo area that knows how to do the job right, everyone wants a piece of his $$$$, and yes, I like this one, he doesn’t do DRAMA… ????♀️?
@ Rachel H Steer clear and far away from this one. I wouldn’t get too upset, be grateful you are able to see all these signs now, many of us missed while dating narcs.. I have faith someone great will come along when you least expect it.
YES!!- I was repulsed at first glance on the first date with the narc!!- NO way that could EVER be a soul mate! I NEVER once checked up on the narc after the break-up and NEVER got hoovered either. I guess I should consider myself lucky. A blessing in disguise. Dodged a bullet for sure. Please for those fighting the urge to check up on the narc- stay strong for God’s sake and YOUR own healing?
@ Jozie H – You displayed incredible strength! Be proud of yourself.
thank you for this post. ❤️
The repulsion !! Indeed! Afterwards, it was the smile ?
I blocked him, his family and flying monkeys 15 months ago and never looked back. He will never change no matter what fake life he lives.
I haven’t looked up my narcissist in-laws in about 4 years. I did so recently and they are all sick and miserable! Living pathetic lives. I have always said, even on my worst day, I’m happier than they will ever be. They are so filled with toxicity, they can’t help but sabotage their own lives. I do regret looking them up because regardless of the vindication I felt, it doesn’t change what’s happened in the past. So there’s no point to it.
Beware online, offline, during the Holidays, during non Holidays!! just Beware!! We are equipped for Battle now! Thank u!! I refuse to let a so n so Narcissist ruins my ability to live and love! not doing it. I am a 2-time breast cancer survivor! So I know how to fight for my life and WIN!! God bless!! keep up the Great work!
☝️This is so true for this sociopath. Once the snow starts to fall, this is when the sociopath is in his full-blown predator mode. He turns it into a full-time job trying to hook every woman that bites in. And then get ready to rumble!!! ?
Yes! I am so glad that you are talking about this. They do online dating a lot and this is where victims get into trouble. It’s crazy!
OMG that’s where my narc found me. it’s so dangerous because there is no way to warn the next one.
@ Angel P => That’s how this sociopath found me and CAB.
You will find this narc on many sites targeting white women. He will pay more attention to women that have $$$$$, so be aware ☣︎
Yes! I met my ex on POF and it was HELL yet one of my greatest lessons. He wore his mask well. Truth is you can conceal crazy only but so long. Thank you so much for this site and your channel and thanks to everyone for reminding me that I’m not alone and also that there are other survivors like myself it’s highly appreciated. I will continue to speak every chance I get.
Thank you for your kind words @ K.White.
You are not alone, we are here to help one another.
Stay Blessed ?
my Narc is now on every dating site possible especially BBW porn sites. I’m skinny. so grossed to see what he’s chatting with. he says they are easier to get. something about low self-esteem and no fighting with him for treating them bad. I think it’s all sick.
I spent a year on Match and most 90% were Narcissist or Sociopaths. I can’t do it anymore. I attract them like flies! They lie about being single, age, and money. I was lonely and they sniffed my money, dirty dogs…..
Cleveland Wright Jr pays monthly subscription fees for the dating sites his on. I’m guessing with the amount of dating and porn sites monthly fees being paid this money could be used towards his children instead of requesting money from women like CAB to help pay his child support ?♀️?♀️?
@ Love From CA and @KA
I met a sociopath online. I was brainwashed and turned upside down and gave him $4000. that is how I came to learn about narcs and sociopaths. this was 2 years ago and I learned so much. I never knew this disorder existed. great site and channel ?
@ Norma B
YES! I was taken for $20,000. He took over my home, my account etc. I left my own home with all my possessions… I needed to run away and hide!!!!!! Can you imagine, my job, my home, my whole life (and my little boys) in shambles. Me and my boy ended up homeless…. mind you I’m a ” Paralegal” … HE WAS A MASTER MANIPULATOR…. We are barley getting back to rebuilding. It was the worst time in my life. All because I was feeling lonely! Forget that….. I’m fine with my little boy and our dog that’s all I need!!!! Love, Peace and Happiness to all of you. Lesson learned ❤️
@ Laura V so true a very expensive lesson which you will profit from your whole life
@ Norma B but at least you gained knowledge for a lifetime. …keep your head up
I met my narc ex online and everything you mentioned was accurate! Whilst in a relationship I caught him using dating sites on his phone. I am so glad I found the strength to leave and recover from the hell I endured. I’m doing the no contact and I’m just weary of his revenge as we all know how vindictive narcissists are. These sick people are parasites. ?
@ Queen B – The same happened to me on our first meet.
He handed me his phone and another woman was texting him along the lines of that their not compatible as he plays too many games. I questioned him about the text that he may have some unfinished business, he mentioned that these women are still chasing him and they won’t leave him alone.
The following day his baby mama was calling him to find out where he was and about playing games. I should have run to the hills then. ?♀️
I have learnt so much about life and I’ve grown as a person and I’m not the gullible person I used to be… Now I’m more fierce ?♀️?♀️?
I’m also good friends with one of his exes which we can sit back and laugh at each other’s stories. ?
Predators are excellent at online grooming, the very best, they will appear to be of high calibre & high functioning. They are often on multiple sites with many possible sources all being juggled. They won’t appear desperate or rush the target into meeting for coffee or to have sex, this is because they have a harem of adoring choices to work through. POF is the worst that site facilitates predatory behaviors. They are the best online catch, you won’t believe your good luck initially. Dating sites are needed by narcissists they provide validation of their desirability any time of the day or night, predators are addicted to porn & dating sites
☝️This is true and spot on ?
Initially, I was repulsed by my first video chat with this sociopath. As they say, once you have your guard down or feeling vulnerable this is where they use their manipulation techniques to draw you in. and he did sucker me in for a short time until I found the strength to unmask the f*cker!!! ?☠️
Your absolutely correct miss that’s one of the reasons why I refuse to ever try online dating again I’ll take my chances on being single, you have to be very careful about who you converse with on these dating sites, I say about maybe a good 10% of the people that are on there are honest about what they’re looking for so very sad but it just goes to show you the times we’re living in now take care.
I met my narcissist bf on POF also. him and I went to Miami for vacation and I took pictures of him. he had the audacity to post them on POF with no shirt on and shit. now mind you we had been together for three years when he did that bs. these mfers are crazy on these dating websites.
Happy weekend everyone ?
My ex narc told me he would like dating Older Women online because he knew they would be loyal yet he won’t want to commit to them. I’m glad you posted this you should stress it more!! He also was a porn addict.
OMG…you’re the truth!!! I got to laugh..:-)..lmao…The narcissistic, sociopath is up to the same old shyt. Still thinking no one sees it.
PLEASE GET A “REAL” life.
Thank you for educating us.
haha! @ Tammy K
I SMFH when I see his still up to the same ol’ shit, and then tries to throw a bone my way… This puppy not biting ??
Thank you for addressing this topic indeed. Yes, supply and demand the Narc will encounter his or her playground.
I no longer do online usually it is a waste of one’s time, in the long run, I have found. I even deleted my Facebook account. Not playing those games and no casual empty sex FWB no thanks. I am not lonely I know how to say No and mean it.
Been there done that…..have the Tee Shirt…lol.
Run from OceanSize, age 39 on Match: compulsive liar, gas-lighter, obsessed with his ex, admitted to having dated a woman for her high profile job, and many, many more things. Went through the whole love-bombing/devaluation thing with him withing two months.
Thanks for making my Saturday night a blast ? LOL!
I met my friend on Facebook….. I cut dude out my life so fast, he had serious issue’s. I wasn’t raised with drama, so be careful if u need validating, you’re their perfect mates. I knew my worth and hung up on him for good. ( phone only w/ limits) He became so boring after you recognize their wack patterns. Come on now, they tell on themselves, so be careful. He made me love my ex, even more, I stop sweating the small stuff with my babe…..Thanks, Nac?
Thanks for commenting @Leesa G x
After a while, I started getting bored with this sociopath. I love the excitement and being spontaneous. This sociopath had nothing going for him. He was quite boring! He has no goals in life, no ambitions but to sit on dating sites all day every day chatting and hooking up with many women and producing many babies he does not care for ? What a great life! Unstable and toxic ☠️
THE NARC I KNOW, IS ON DATING SITES AND HE RUNS THROUGH THE WOMEN, AND HE DUMPS THEM, ONE AFTER ANOTHER, HE ALWAYS THE VICTIM, THEY COULDNT LOVE HIM, THE WAY HE WANTS THEM TOO, OR THEY CRAZY
I wish that I knew that earlier !! I was the perfect victim …? At that time, I couldn’t imagine that these individuals even exist !! I stepped into the terrible wrap… But, he was not very clever!! My alarm bells were ringing very early! ? Like I always say: We Empaths have a good heart…But we are not stupid !!
☝️Truth…
This sociopath underestimated me. He got me at a weak moment, and here we are today letting KARMA do her thing ?
hahaha!!!
OMG! Are you getting your SWAG on!!! ? Love you gal ?
???? You know me!!! Always having a good time ????
awesome. you nailed this one. Btw. also a great idea to start a new forum. can’t wait, bring on 2020
@ Thomas A. Thank you! Yes, the new site and community forum will be released in the new year. We can’t wait as well to have everything in one place.
These websites will be still active to help potential victims of Cleveland Wright Jr, but the majority of work and interaction will be carried on our new site. We’ll keep you posted ??
He fit the bill on every point. Love bombing at the beginning and after our fall outs, manipulations, gaslighting, hoovering, future faking, grandiose rockstar thoughts of himself, keeping in contact with old girlfriends, moved around a lot , suspicious of people, paranoid of peoples motives, comparing himself to people he perceived as high quality, financially irresponsible, alcoholism, coming on to my friend, coming on to his friends girlfriend, dating sites, unexplained absences. That creepy stare. Constantly asking “ do you love me?” The Dr Jekyll Mr Hyde… he even told me.. that his ex used to say the exact same thing.. Jekyll and Hyde.
All along I thought it was the alcohol ….and if I could just help him….. I now see that he is probably an alcoholic BECAUSE he is a narcissist!!!
He is empty inside. No frigging conscience whatsoever. Always right. Never says sorry. Brags about being right. Brags about not saying sorry.
When caught in deceit: “ I did nothing wrong … because…
@ Morgan
OMG! The ‘Do you Love Me?’ hahaha!
This sociopath asked this too many times… WTF!!! ?♀️?
Your 40+ yo and we weren’t even in a relationship and knowing he was with other women and ‘Do you love me”
yeah right, mate! ?
@ CAB LOL! Thanks for making our Saturday night entertaining! So much loveeeee ❤️
☝️ PREACH ???
Yes, my Narcopaths we’re constantly juggling chicks on their phone. Usually really desperate pathetic ones. Really poor quality- just like they are
It’s even worse… I don’t online date, I knew my narc 3 years before we started dating. We were together for 10 years. It was several years in that I found out about the affairs, the online sexting, I had no idea xxx adult dating sites even existed or how many cheaters are out there. He had a serious bdsm sex addiction and he was sleeping with men, women, couples, transgenders. I have no problem with sexual preferences, whatever makes you happy. I learned a lot of things but don’t say you want a monogamous relationship and marry someone and then cheat on them. Believe me, there are plenty out there just as kinky and sex driven looking to hook up. Of course, for a narc, it takes the pleasure out of it if there isn’t someone to hurt in the process. I have 2 words for those guys…..
A Long distance relationship is hard enough with normal person but is harder when you learn that the one you had a relationship with was a narcissist. Perfect excuse for them to cheat!!!
exactly. We look
For the grass is greener on the other side of the planet. For me, it was for somebody living 20000 miles away. Left everything. Business family stability. This traumatic experience became a soul trauma and may cost you your life. We don’t need to suck into somebody’s illusion. This is their version of life and not ours. Never is unless it is for somebody like ourselves and more but how do we know. Narcs mould into our image so freaky successfully! . You will end up where you are not supposed to be!!!
Narcs are cowards. The worst creatures you can ever have a relationship with. They’re quick to cut you off because you see through their facade.
Thank you for your time today ?
They do this PUSH and PULL action… They gaslight you!
They are normally sleeping around with two or more people when they were with you. Please check yourself… you don’t know what they are spreading!
They are disgusting and evil!
No empathy!!
Whatever they ACCUSE you about, is their CONFESSION! They are so predictable!!
They lie, cheat, steal and try to destroy you!
I knew he was cheating, but I could never really catch him, so I thought I was going crazy…he would flirt with anything that moved! A nightmare 10 years long, 16 years no contact ?❤
@ Marro – They have multiple partners and they just want a warm body. No intimacy!
They were never responsible for the break up of their previous relationships ?
It’s normally the other person’s fault… so funny ?
See some of my comments under Sex with a Sociopath http://bit.ly/2NAGWs2 I’m happy to take the blame… ?? As life is good! ??
Four months after my discard the batshit narc is begging me to “date me for just a month.” I’m a registered dietitian and now that I’ve had time to see things for what they really are, it’s plain as day that my image was being used as a tool to hold his mask in place. Keeping NC and sending the narc back to tinder for his behaviorally challenged equivalents/whores…
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