In today’s topic, we are Exposing and introducing to our readers, the sociopath’s current supply and Girlfriend Lisa Whistler from Darwin, NT Australia.
Why are we Exposing Cleveland Wright Jr Supply and Girlfriend Lisa Whistler?
Lisa Whistler has been following our story since we Exposed Sociopath Cleveland Wright Jr from the start of 2018.
The Enabler has repeatedly been visiting this site, clevelandwrightjr.is and also has on several occasions visited a blog belonging to one of Cleveland Wright Jr’s victim and survivor who exposed the predator of his wrongdoings back in 2017.
Anyone who repeatedly visits this site would have an excellent understanding of what Cleveland Wright Jr is all about or what RED FLAGS to look out for if they decided to take that next step into dating this sociopath.
Back in 2018, while Cleveland Wright Jr was dating his Primary source of Supply Kelly Welch and several secondary sources of supply, in the meantime, this predator was grooming his next target, Lisa Whistler.
What is Grooming?
Grooming is a manipulative process used by a sexual (or other) predator to create a sense of trust with a targeted person before the act of actual victimization.
Here is a list of common Grooming tactics used by Cleveland Wright Jr on his targets before abusing them:
- They pretend to be someone and something they’re not. They pretend to be someone you can trust, so you put your guard down. They do this in a variety of ways, as will be described next.
- They are very charming and present themselves as people who are the answer to all your needs. They seem to be “better than life.” This is because they aren’t really who they are portraying. Their charm is merely a ploy and involves superficial connecting at best.
- They appear to be very empathic – mirroring you and showing a significant amount of “seeing” you and validating your felt needs and experiences. If the groomer is an adult and the victim is a child, the abuser will put himself at the child’s level and act as if he really “gets” the child and meets him where he’s at.
- Groomers act very innocuously and light-hearted. They don’t seem heavy, dark, or full of some deep, hidden secret. Victims do not suspect that he/she is anything but easy to be with.
- They pretend to be your protector, acting outraged if anything terrible happens to you and promising to protect you from all evil (how ironic.)
Back to the story of Lisa Whistler
After the grooming tactic by Cleveland Wright Jr, Lisa Whistler is now smitten, hooked and in LOVE with the illusional character made up by the sociopath himself (his false self).
January of 2019, Lisa Whistler took the bait and travelled to meet her new love interest from East Amherst, Buffalo, NY.
While Lisa stayed with Cleveland Wright Jr at his place, the sociopath manipulated his way for Lisa Whistler to pay for his return ticket to travel to Australia-USA, as he has done so with his many other targets that live overseas in other countries.
Luckily for some of his targets, they knew his game or financially could not afford to buy a ticket.
What Lisa Whistler doesn’t understand is how Cleveland Wright Jr and Sociopaths Operates.
1. He has manipulated her to pay for his return ticket to Australia-USA, and it’s not because of LOVE or to spend time or get to know her as you do in a normal healthy relationship.
2. On this sociopath’s mind, all he was thinking about was VENGEANCE and how to revenge against the survivor who exposed him back in 2017. The survivor also lives in Australia.
3. The sociopath wanted to let the survivor know somehow that he was in Australia.
The Triangulation Tactic, where the sociopath is trying to get the survivor jealous and try to get a reaction or a response in return.
4. While Cleveland Wright Jr is feeling validated, he gets a free trip to Australia, money, sex, free food and drinks, hot summer weather at the expense to a woman who he does not love, care or appreciate, while also playing the silent treatments with his other supplies (girlfriends).
5. To Lisa Whistler – Did you ever feel uncomfortable whenever this sociopath would speak of the survivor that exposed him? We’ve written this on our blog many times that it’s become an obsession with him. Cleveland Wright Jr has been exposed publicly, the survivor called checkmate, has gone No Contact, and to this day he is still trying to get a reaction from this person. A big RED FLAG when a person speaks about a “significant other”
6. Cleveland Wright Jr has many sources of supply, exes waiting for his return, new targets he is preying on, and many side chicks and baby mamas that are happy to accommodate his sexual needs. Not forgetting his other Australian women he also entertains in other States.
As we’ve preached many times on this site, you are not the only one his entertaining Lisa!
Like all narcissists and sociopaths, none of his other girlfriends would have known that he travelled to Australia. Oops! sorry to break it to you 
Why does the Sociopath Disappear – Cleveland Wright Jr would have explained to them all that he was either working away, looking after his children at home or with his baby mamas in Canada, was busy working or being busy on something while all his other girlfriends thought he was still in his home country of the USA.
Once a cheater has been caught out “We’re Only Friends” excuse will be played out. How does that make you feel Lisa? Knowing that you have just been duped and conned?
7. Cleveland Wright Jr is currently targeting Australian women as he has unfinished business with an Australian victim and a survivor that exposed his abuse.
For Australian women reading this post, please be careful when approached by this individual once you start chatting to this sociopath you will understand why. And keep your money in your pocket. This guy is dead BROKE! He would try and milk your pockets if you gave him a chance.
The Revenge Attack While In Australia
While Lisa Whistler and Cleveland Wright Jr returned back to Australia, it didn’t take long before all the plotting for a revenge attack was put into place on the victim/survivor who exposed the sociopath back in 2017.
You have been handed a FREE return ticket to travel back to Australia-USA and the first thing on their minds is to cause some kind of spectacle drama.
Anyone else would have been honored to receive a flight for nothing, and this guy still wasn’t happy.
This is how sick these people can be.
Both individuals took it upon themselves to contact the business associates of the survivor who exposed Cleveland Wright Jr back in 2017.
They wrote a letter outlining that the survivor has sent the sociopaths nude images onto his youngest daughter and about these websites exposing Cleveland Wright Jr. The same old bullshit story we read about on The Real Cleveland Wright Jr Blog.
Our Questions to Both Lisa Whistler and Cleveland Wright Jr:
- While in Australia did you both make your way to the Australian Police or the Australian Federal Police with the evidence you obtained by your nude images being sent onto the youngest daughter?
Along with the evidence of the harassment?
The contact between the survivor and your family members and friends you so publicly wrote about on your blog along with the letters you have written in detail to the Police in Victoria, to the business associates and family members of the survivor?Have we missed anyone else that you have contacted?
- While in Australia, why didn’t you visit the business associates? Your accusations you make are severe and to make people pay attention why didn’t you both visit in person to prove your case?
- While in Australia, why didn’t you pay a visit to the survivors family with the evidence you both have on hand, to prove your case?
- Why is everything written in a letter?
You both were in Australia, you both had a chance to show the sociopaths evidence to authorities and to prove his innocence, and like any normal person or victim to proceed with the proper formalities?
We’ve read it all before from The Real Cleveland Wright Jr blog, the same old manipulation tactics and the bullshit lies this sociopath speaks of, but we’re ready for you both to show us the REAL FACTS, THE EVIDENCE as we’re all here waiting.
*** To all the other girlfriends out there, we thought you would like to know that Lisa Whistler also made a return visit to Cleveland Wright Jr’s home town back in June of 2019.
Some kind of special guy and so accommodating isn’t he!
Why don't we contact and warn Cleveland Wright Jr's New Source of Supply (Girlfriends)?
Some of you may have read or watched our YouTube videos explaining what happened when a former victim and survivor warned the new supply Kelly Welch of the sociopath’s abuse.
What we have learnt about Narcissistic Personality or Cluster B Disorders and from experience we recommend not contacting the new supply, we move on and live life.
The reason you don’t take the time to “warn” the new supply is that they won’t listen to you anyway.
Cleveland Wright Jr has spent so much time targeting the supply and grooming them just for situations such as this. You are wasting valuable healing time trying to warn them because you feel that you can stop his behaviour, you can’t and you won’t.
The new supply has been love-bombed as you were and made to feel very special as you were and she won’t listen to anything you say. You’ve been made to look like a fool to the new supply so she won’t believe you and she will think that you’re more psychotic than anything else.
What we would suggest you do is live your life, be extremely patient because where you are right now, Lisa will figure out shortly. Cleveland Wright Jr is obsessed with making Lisa, and his other supplies feel special and buying gifts that they would not have gotten otherwise. So their focus is entirely on him, and nothing you say will make Lisa or the other supplies believe anything you say about him. He will use the triangulation technique against you, and you will be made to look like the crazy person.
So what you do is live life, pretend to be happy if you have to, smile and work on you until you’re there.
Be happy and love yourself because you do, and you can.
When you do that, he will be pissed at you because the narcissist cannot stand for you to be happy because he is forever a miserable five year old and you’ve moved on.
So don’t waste your time trying to warn her, step back and she will find out and possibly come looking for you. Be happy and be well.
We understand that Cleveland Wright Jr has had many sources of supplies (Girlfriends) since we exposed his abuse back between 2017/18 on this website.
As from experience, we at clevelandwrightjr.com will not make contact with any of his current supply/s as the new target will eventually find out that this guy is a FRAUD.
A Narcissist will never change his behaviour. Each Girlfriend of Cleveland Wright Jr will go through the same abuse as every other girlfriend in his past.
Even with Cleveland Wright Jr’s Flying Monkeys or Enablers, we do not know who these people are until they make contact with the victim, the victims family or associates.
It’s our pleasure to Expose these people on this site and clevelandwrightjr.is for taking part in the Smear Campaign orchestrated by the Narcissist.
These people don’t know the victim/s but are happy to play the part all for attention-seeking. Pathetic!
Why contact the new supply of Cleveland Wright Jr’s when all the information pertaining to this individual and his narcissistic abuse is all here on this site for the world to see. 🧐
Information on Lisa Whistler
Lisa Whistler’s Facebook Page has now been deactivated once she knew we were ready to expose her. We don’t understand why, though? 
EDIT: 9/11/19 (is now active with images of Cleveland Wright Jr taken down LOL)
Someone that has nothing to hide is feeling pretty GUILTY at this point. 
We do feel sorry for the other Girlfriends of Cleveland Wright Jr’s, as they have one hell of a ride with his narcissistic abuse, but with you Lisa, all we can say is Not Smart.
You knew what you were getting yourself involved with, as mentioned earlier, you have been following this website and others since we exposed Cleveland Wright Jr. You understood the consequences, and like the other Flying Monkeys & Enablers, you wanted to play the game.
We’re assuming like the other girlfriends prior to you and now that you have been exposed, you will be playing the victim card and looking for sympathy?
*Lisa Whistler place of work and her details can be found from a Google Search.
*More Images of Lisa Whistler can be found on clevelandwrightjr.is
Unmasking Sociopath “The Real Cleveland Wright Jr” @ clevelandwrightjr.is
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Never loan a narc any money, you will probably never get it back. Never trust any narcissist with your finances, unless you wanna end up with a load of debt. All of their money goes to a false illusion, to stunt. They want people to think they have it all, and they will take from you to maintain this false image. Great Article
☝️This is true. I’ve read stories by other victims that are financially ruined by the narcissist. Maxed out credit cards, applying for credit in their children’s or spouses names. They live beyond their means, Every year this narcissist re-finances his loans, credit cards etc.; as everything is maxed and he can’t live. He requested money from me several times and asked him about repaying it, and he just laughed in my face. So I knew then he couldn’t be trusted!!!
And for a guy to ask a woman for money. ? No thank you, you can take your broke ass out of here and be someone’s else’s problem ✌️
I know narcs who are excellent with money. I know narcs who want you to spend your money while they save theirs. I know narcs who are very irresponsible with bills and money. I know narcs who could be financial wizards. I know narcs who are looking for a meal ticket and someone to take care of them. I know narcs who are very covetous and greedy. They just don’t care. Yep, narcs lie until they die and deceive until they receive. Beware of narcs bearing gifts!
☝️Yesss! This is true @Shirley. Cleveland Wright Jr is still searching for his white sugar mama with an open bank account. It’s not sex that his after, sex is just a ploy to draw you in, but show him the money and he’ll be there with open arms.
He’ll be loyal for a short period of time before he starts up his philandering ways again. Nothing will keep this sociopath happy. If you are young enough, another tactic for this sociopath to have control over you is to get you pregnant with his child even though he wouldn’t give a shit about the child.
Haha! Cheap gifts at that! I’m not materialistic at all, but its the thought that counts. To a narcissist, it’s a ploy to make you believe he does care for you. The necklace that Lisa Whistler wears in the above image (top pic) was a gift from Cleveland Wright Jr.
They will quit jobs to not pay child support also. Even if they have to destroy there children in the process !
@ Shannon G – When I met Cleveland Wright Jr in Canada he was asking me questions on how to go about hiding his money from his baby mamas. It’s true what you say as I’ve seen this so many times with this sociopath. Too lazy to work and rather find a white chick with money (sugar mama)
My narcissist was cheap as hell and very selfish. He spent his money on bs and thought I was supposed to spend all mines on bills. That negro had me twisted. His ass had to go! twisted people
damn!!! what’s her number she can pay for my flight if she likes. i won’t mind Lol
Always getting into arguments, always picking fights” – YES, SO TRUE smh
I have found that immense pain typically comes with trying to warn a narcissist’s new partner. The insults, accusations, and mockery I dealt with as a result of having any type of conversation with my narcissistic ex’s new toy made my emotional burden in the aftermath of the break-up immensely heavier. Additional obstacles were thus presented in my process of healing. Nothing got accomplished, and it wasn’t worth it to even try. these women just don’t get it. good job in exposing this woman. no malice towards her just facts
@Katie V – Before I knew about all the different names of Narcissism and Cluster B personality disorders, looking back it now it’s not worth it. I’ve always been a believer of not interfering in other peoples business as its not our business unless domestic violence or some abuse is playing out then I may step in or contact the proper authorities.
The only person that I thought to contact was Kelly Welch to warn her on this guys manipulation and mind fuckery. It was a mistake as she was on her HIGH of being love-bombed. This woman then started contacting me as per instructions from the sociopath. Playing out the sociopath’s role-playing and asking me stupid questions that didn’t make sense, but she was happy to play along and be a manipulator herself.
As we mentioned above, some of these women are happy to play the part all for the sociopath’s attention.
If you thought the relationship was strong with Cleveland Wright Jr, then there is no reason to even contemplate of playing the sociopaths games. All these women we have exposed are all insecure within themselves.
enablers believe narcissists 100%! They believe them so much that they do not want to hear the other person´s version of the story because there is no need…They have already made their mind up.
Sounds weird? No this is just how it works…
The enablers know that if they should ever cross the narc, they could well be next on the chopping block!
☝️TRUTH… ?
When narcissist finds suitable person that has weak selfesteem and weak personal boundaries he starts changing this person into himself.
Basically if you observe any relationships between narc and his partner you will notice that narc in the lovebomb stage praises everything that is different about the other person. Once the relationship deepens he starts criticizing the other person and wants the other person to do what he likes. He is envious of any achievements of the other person. He wants to destroy the other person’s individuality and turn him/her into his ‘tool’ or ‘extension’.
In order to survive narc’s partner starts at first doing what narcs wants. But narc always raises the target. So the other person starts to get into self defence mode and starts acting like narc in order to ‘get even’.
Mind you when normal person is out of such relationship he/she can get better because soon because such behaviour is learnt while narc has to re-parent himself thru long therapy in order to change.
Often many narcs unknowingly get involved with other narcs and than once their masks are off there are no limits to what they are capable of doing to each other… That is usually when narcs meet their karma!
☝️ Spot on Angel – Most of us have been there. I myself was going through a bad patch in life when I started chatting to Cleveland Wright Jr on InterracialDating.com I had no boundaries, low self-esteem and was vulnerable at the time.
Narcissists can sniff a person out when they’re down and out. It’s easy prey for them.
Where I’m at in life now, people like him wouldn’t even get a foot in the door!
Be Happy and Live Life to the fullest ?
BAM! ? Another bombshell… ?this has to hurt big time… someone is going to be pissed ?♀️?????
☝️Haha! Whoop there it is ??
☠️ I’m guessing a narcissistic rage is going on right now with some girlfriends wanting answers! ?
Back a couple of years he was gloating 20 girlfriends, significant others, side chicks etc.; ask him the same question today I’m guessing this number has risen immensely… ?Now that he has been exposed, he has to work harder for admiration and validation. He needs a lot of people to believe his BS story… ?
In the beginning, I’d meet the flying monkeys in the supermarket & they would say something in passing even though I was trying to ignore them. Finally, I turned around and faced them head on saying, “Hey, there are 2 sides to every storey, is there not? Perhaps you’d like to hear mine?” (Of course, then they’d back off.) Some times the best defence is a good offence.
@Alex K, If you are still feeling weak we don’t recommend saying anything, stay No Contact. It’s so hard not to defend yourself, it can also put you back in your healing. Everyone is different and can handle adversity differently. You need to do what’s best for you! ?
Thank you for sharing your experience with the narcissist and flying monkeys…
its a nightmare that consumes all of your energy, never knowing what is going to ‘hit’ you next…or who is going to ‘hit’ you, or from where…
I went through this and almost didn’t survive it, was suicidal at one point, but found myself determined to research what the hell was going on. I found on YouTube that Sam Vaknin and Dana Morningstar from Thrive After Abuse, really hit the nail on the head about what narcissistic abuse is all about.
I think they saved my life, actually, for I was so in the dark about this, and in such a deep place of depression and despair, with my heart on the floor where every family member turned on me, one by one, and its hard enough to have the narcissist smear you and try to destroy you, but then the flying monkeys that start doing their bidding afterwards, it almost killed me when this happened..
I am in awe when I see people like yourself, that have the courage to do a youtube videos and articles and put it out there, their experience with narcissistic abuse…you are truly doing Gods work, and when you share your experience, you help validate others, like myself, that are experiencing the same thing, and are feeling alone.
Because of brave people like you, I feel less alone about what I went through, and feel sometimes that this narcissistic abuse, perhaps is an epidemic in our society…and needs to be exposed more and more..If you are absorbing all of that toxic energy in the mist of coping with narcissistic abuse, make sure that you get fresh air, walk, out in the open air, take that time to yourself, for exercise for me, helped me heal and keep a clean space for myself, and helped me clear that ‘fogginess’ that narcissistic abuse can cause..
for narcissists try to get in your head and poison your thoughts…its important to keep your mind clear, and stay healthy for your own well being…also keep a journal for your own sanity….make sure you purge all of the poison out, and with exercise/walking breathe in all the fresh air, for your soul needs that nourishment….sending you a lot of love on your journey out of narcissistic abuse…
@Diane L => Thank you for your honesty and your kind words ?The Narcissist Abuse Survivor Community is real and we have learnt so much from one another on here and our YouTube Channel. I’m so happy to hear that we have helped in some way. Thank You and God Bless ?
@ Diane L – ☺️ ??
Hey could you make a video or article about the difference between Narcissistic Rage and Rage After Narcissistic Abuse?
@ Mitch R – Yes it’s coming. After posting today’s article, I think it’s probably the right time as we know that Cleveland Wright Jr would have had a narcissistic rage today!!! I feel sorry for his girlfriends as I’m assuming he’ll be taking it out on them. Been there and I’ve experienced it… It’s like a young child in a grown man’s body having a hissy fit ??
This shit makes me stronger and happier every day knowing they are in turmoil.lmao this guy is toast
☝️ It can be validating at times knowing these people will never change or do better for themselves. It gives you strength and peace knowing it wasn’t you. ?
Narcissists needs other people to believe you are the bad guy but as long as you know you are not then it does not really matter. Great advice here, no contact them. When you are not being fooled by toxics anymore your are vibrating on a different level and need a new set of friends.
☝️ Yesss! ?
Thank you for commenting Melissa x
I sent his attempted manipulative and abusive texts to some friends, so they know he’s lying. If I do have flying monkeys, I never knew them lol. The funny thing is people tell me when he tries to slander me, others don’t believe him or don’t care. thank you. i have shared this on facebook to get the word out on these people.
@ Catherine – Thank you, Catherine. Yesss, please keep sharing these articles and website. The more these people are exposed. Hopefully, it’s going to save one person from being mentally & physically abused.
Narcs need to invest in blow up dolls. They stay silent, take the abuse & get them through the HOV lane. One with a look of dismay is probably particularly attractive. Plus they don’t care where that narc has been before.
I agree! 100%
Better yet, an AI robot who can be programmed with phrases like “ you’re so smart”, “you’re so talented”, “I could listen to you all day long” ?
☝️So funny ?????
Fantastic, Brad!! They will somehow screw that relationshit up also!!??
@Brad My ex prefers filthy strippers and whores…pretty much the same as a blow up doll..they just have a heartbeat! Lol #Nastiness
They need 10 blow up dolls so they feel like they have their harem, but who would they triangulate with with no words?
@BlackCat I’m sure they will find a way ??♀️?
??? Good point
@BlackCat44 => The narcissist still wouldn’t get enough validation ?
They’re angry because we’re exposing them… Their new supply is catching on and they’re running scared. I love this video… They’re always plotting, planning, and scheming..
I’ve been thinking of the fact of no closure and why they won’t give people closure so they can Hoover and stalk, continue to triangulate US, with the new supply and we don’t even realize they’re doing it but I think we feel it .. We’ve become very sensitive to the point of hypersensitive to the atmosphere around us! It’s a Spiritual Battle! Well, they say that Empaths never win against a narcissist, think again!
Breaking FREE is what angers them the most!! Unfortunately, I feel terrible for the new supply. Why can’t they just move on with giving us empaths closure?
Because they feed off our energy long after they go off with the new supply. .
Well, I’m sorry! I will continue to rail against this spirit and bash their behavior publically! I’m in SUPER NOVA MODE! And will remain on Super Nova mode until every narc is exposed! At one point we will realize that they’ll never change. They’re not happy with the new SUPPLY, the new supply is figuring these people out quicker than In the past because we’re exposing them. I’m saying this publically, They hate that they’re disorder is now being exposed and ZERO TOLERANCE is correct. yes! great job on exposing these people… keep up the good work. love this website
☝️Yesss! Keep preaching Sherrie ?? TRUTH!!! Keep exposing these people. It’s the world we live in today. It’s an epidemic.
Cleveland Wright Jr has lost CONTROL. This is his KARMA. He messed with the wrong person at the wrong time, and enough is enough. We are going to keep these sites going for a long time. If these sites at least help one woman or young lady escape the sociopath’s abuse, then the messages we preach is working. There is still a lot of work to be done to educate people on narcissism, but its a start.
His ego was deflated today after we posted this article. His PARANOID… He is in panic mode, and now he is in damage control making up bullshit stories to his so-called girlfriends. This sociopath thinks we don’t know how to play his game, think again, Felicia!!! ✌️
We were that Grade A Supply. Do they ever find someone who is worthy of our replacement? No. They settle for whatever they find.
It’s like taking a drug for the first time, we were that first high. After that, they spend the rest of their lives chasing that same high but never really finding it. They might try similar drugs/people, but it’s never quite the same. It never gives them the feeling they first had.
In some cases they hoover and try to come back to you. But you see through them now, you know what they’re about and it’s nothing good. So even when they go back to that first drug they tried, it’s still not the same. Because they abused that drug over and over again. They abused us.
they never look within. Instead, they rather point the finger and project the blame on to you. They are too emotionally immature to ever accept responsibility for anything that they do. So they never change for the better, they just get worst. They will try to find you in another person, but they will never find you.
@Narc Survivor, Spot On ?
You’ll search for me in another person, but you’ll never find me!! Quote of the decade!! ?
@ The Writer BOOM ?
Yesss… The writer i needed this. Im 2weeks out from a narc. It was only 5months but if felt like years. God Bless
With 4 ex narcs I have been with, I can confirm that this does happen every time without fail. They go looking for someone just like you, hoping that they will be more willing to tolerate their abusive nature. But no matter how many people they go through, they can never find you. And believe me, it hurts them.
☝️@Narc Survivor – This is True. And we are seeing it play out in front of our eyes with Cleveland Wright Jr. This sociopath is targeting Australian women because he’s looking for the victim/survivor who exposed him in another Australian.
As we’ve mentioned above in this article, he has unfinished business to settle. Whatever that business maybe, he is projecting those issues onto someone else. We’re assuming Lisa Whistler has taken the brunt of his abuse.
Thank you for sharing ✌️
Narc Survivor
It makes me feel better knowing that they’ll look for me in other ppl, but never find the same feeling.
A narc in my life actually came back after 3 yrs. &told me. So, i def. Know they do this.
I’m glad they suffer. Because they obliterate us.
@Narc Survivor
They can be reckless in people’s lives ???
Poweful just powerful?? AMEN ?
@ The Writer => I love this ❤️ I’m stealing it ?
Narcissists are living on borrowed time. Karma is going to serve them in the afterlife, where they can’t gaslight or exploit or triangulate God. ???
The narcissist never moves on… but YOU do
I have seen the narcissist age so fast.. it’s shocking.
☝️TRUTH – I’ve mentioned this on another post on this site, I believe Cleveland Wright Jr has aged heaps since I last associated myself with him. His image back then was well-groomed, his beard was manicured, now he looks over 50+ and dishevelled.
He could have always looked like this but once I took off my rose-coloured glasses I saw things differently. ?
When you suffer at the hands of their abuse everything about them is ugly!
@ CAB =>
“He could have always looked like this, but once I took off my rose-coloured glasses, I saw things differently. ?
When you suffer at the hands of their abuse, everything about them is ugly!”
I agree with your statement. ? He looks so old now, and they say black don’t crack?
Those rose-coloured glasses always get me into trouble. ??
haha yes they do ???
You don’t have to be a fly on the wall or wonder if the new supply is being treated better remember you left for a reason and they will too, they didn’t Magically get better those creatures are still the same creature that you discarded or if you’ve been discarded, trust me they want you to think that you were the problem but in the end you know it’s all ways been them and they know it but will never admit it they know their a crock of ?they will get a non attractive person just to mess with your head to make you think you weren’t all that so it can mess with your self esteem Please Love Yourself remember the Monster is the one with the issues not you!
@CM… This is True… That’s why we stay NC, as everything being played out is a lie. Never believe in the happiness the new supply portrays on social media, as it’s all FAKE. She may be happy during the love-bombing phase, but by the 3-month mark or once the narcissist knows he has got you hooked, he will start to abuse you with all his mind fuckery.
The Narcissist plays the same ol’ game with all his new supply, and it will always end the same as narcissists never change.
These demons don’t like a challenge, and love easy. Their fake relationships are temporary, and these demons love confusion. STD having fools. Stay NO CONTACT! keep on exposing x
☝️Thank You! ✌️
When they let their mask slip – like they always do – don’t feel sorry for them! That’s the worst thing you can do. They are manipulative liars who go around with a big smirk on their faces, thinking they can do whatever they please. They don’t care who they hurt. When they say they have demons and painful thoughts, it is because they are destroying so many people’s lives (including their own). These are sick individuals who need serious help. All you should do is stay far, far away!
☝️Yesss… Truth… ??
They never stop boo shopping! I feel sorry for this lady but if she’s been following the story since 2018 then she’s the fool
Oh my gosh you are so on point!
I am so grateful for your youtube channel and the articles on this site!!!
I knew something was up with dude a year after dating this guy. I asked him if he was messing around…of course he lied. I recognized the signs…he obviously thought I was stupid. I commenced to do my homework! LoL!!
@Leesa…”boo shopping”! LoL
To this day, I am mad at myself for answering the phone!! hehe??☺ dang!
But, I’m glad I knew what real love was and, it didnt hurt that I was a tad bit crazy good and very intuitive.??
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@ Leesa P “Boo Shopping” ????
Anyone who thinks they could be dating or approached by one let me just warn you I was in a year and half relationship with one who never posted me on IG. I’m not on social media so I just said whatever but it got to a point where on vacation he post a picture of him alone holding two drinks. That tells you everything. Do not trust these people they will give you 1000 reasons why but the truth is they don’t want to display to the world you are exclusive.
My ex kept his new supply a secret for a hot minute and when I finally saw….I would’ve kept her a secret too!!! The way he talked about me he would have had him a fine woman!!!! Uhh…hell nahh! He joined this…joined that…doing this…doing that…..
@ Cheryl Mc haha! Yes, they keep their new supply a secret as they don’t want their other so-called girlfriends to know about his new relationship. Eventually, the new girlfriend will slip up as she believes they are in a relationship.
We have seen this play out with Lisa Whistler. Cleveland Wright Jr made her believe they were in a relationship; she was loyal while he lives a bachelors lifestyle. While entertaining and sleeping with as many women as he liked. Double standards!!!
Narcissists want their cake and eat it too…
Keep putting out the word on these people. Your doing one heck of a great public service in doing so. As far as general public awareness, you have barely scratched the tip of the iceberg. I had the pleasure of attending your event in Toronto! Your work is far from done. Can’t wait for the next event
@ Denetra Thank you ☺️ We’re just getting started ?
Another great one! ???
@T Barry Thank You ?
The knowledge & education on narcissism being so easily accessible is a TRUE BLESSING! God’s work! Freeing his people from the “bondage” of narcissism.
☝️TRUTH ?… The knowledge and education out there thanks to YouTube and other sites have made it easier to understand all the mind fuckery that these creatures put you through.
In some countries, the court systems are now following and have more understanding of narcissism and cluster b personalities. It’s great to see that mental and emotional abuse is now a crime in these countries. ??
I just got this one! I been watching you slay for awhile now! U’all just keep going in to another level! Thank u! Always great knowledge that I can actually see! Yes! Continue hun! All the way from Chicago!???♀️❤️?
@davina #WeGotThis ?️♀️??
it is hard to meet good people out there. I just turned 40 & still haven’t found a good man(yet). I met better men when I was in my 20s. People are so evil & shady nowadays. My ex narc thought that he could replace with me with his less attractive new supply smh. So far I’ve blocked 3 new numbers that he called me from within a 9 month period. looking forward to watching the youtube video today. this should be fun
@Latina => keep a lookout for the notification. it should be happening around midday today. ?
Good morning Love from CA ☕️ where is the link to the youtube channel i don’t see it on here ?♀️
@Monica we’re going live in 30mins. We have DM you with the link ??
Love this one ladies, you’re all legends shout out from Australia ??
You are so right! Just dealt with someone like this. Called him out without knowing..lol
@ Lachie “No worries Mate” ? LOL
Be aware…fellas…she’ll spend some of her tax check on you… to make u think shes sincere..
TAKE IT AND ? RUN! Lol
keep on Exposing these Narcs out here Narcin!!!Waiting on that T-shirt still? ?
??❤?❤Real TRUTH always Thank you for your time today ?❤?❤?from London
@ Samantha It’s our pleasure ? We are here to help
So True!! I had letters, photos, phone calls, stalking from the new supply and Narc even had leases to other places with the new supplies! They will tell them all that they love them, with a lot of furure faking. Nothing but lies to fill them up at the moment!! Sadism is anorher part of this too!! Disgusting individuals!!
☝️True… The Triangulation Game that Cleveland Wright Jr likes to play with his new supply. He tried it with me a number of times with women in Australia and his homegirl Stasia Hoadley and it never worked. I don’t get jealous of other women as I’m comfortable in my body and who I am as a person.
I defiantly saw the insecurities with some of his enablers as it’s played out in front of us all. Sad really that women can be like this.
This is so powerful, everything you said resonated with me. The more I study this topic the more I realise I don’t know. I keep learning more every day. It’s taken me over two and a half years to get it into my head that they really don’t care. At all. It just blows my mind. So much is revealed to me now and yet there is so much more to learn.
☝️Thanks, Nicky! It’s true as like all victims and survivor’s mention about their own story. All our accounts have similarities; it’s like we’ve all dated the same narcissist. It’s scary, but at the same time with research, narcissists become easier to understand, and they are predictable. So their manipulation games will have no effect on you.
There is so much to learn about their disorder and also good luck with it all Nicky ✌️
My twin brother is a narc alcoholic. He has assaulted me multiple times. I went total no contact 5 yrs ago.
Absolutely love this community. Happy ? Wednesday. Indeed that has happened to me multiple times. Day 27 NO CONTACT. Love ❤️ your videos and articles. Keep them coming
Thank You @Dave W ?
The ex narc has no steady income, no car and loves to boast how he only associates with ppl who have 6 figure incomes. While he has a 200 credit score and an apartment in his niece’s name…what a winner.
☝️Haha! Like the Sociopath, this website is about. Loves to Boast about everything and everyone. How good he is at this and that. How better he is at his job than everyone else. Blah blah blah! That’s why his alway jobless, broke, living on credit, and can never back anything up! Words are cheap… ?
He also mentioned on his blog that our website would be down soon as with time bullies lose interest. Here we are still standing, still preaching about Narcissism and Personality Disorders.
We are minding our own business, researching & collecting information to present to our readers, while this guy has not written on his blog since May 2018.
He was trying to raise money to bring the website down and to start legal proceedings, threats of the FBI while to this day is still contacting the survivors family, business associates, the local police, etc. with his bullshit lies.
Cleveland Wright Jr even made his way to Australia and still could not produce his evidence to the local authorities. The best he could do is write a letter about his story. WTF!!! But he’s happy to boast on his website #winning #ktimeisup ? #GodBlessHim. ??
My ex narc would cling to me after he and his friends had a falling out. Once the dust settles, he treated me like I was the scum of the Earth. No balance. Now that I think back on our relationship, nothing about him was authentic. Even that charm and humor that he hid behind. Everyone was a tool to his supply shed. The manipulation was gross.
They’ll be even more jealous when they see you doing well especially if someone else found you.
You better believe they will do anything to sabotage your happiness just to keep you on their level.
And they make themselves seem like they’re in such high demand when we catch on to their bs – triggering the devaluation stage.
When we catch on that they’ve been cheating the whole time, they call US Jealous & Crazy when actually “um no mf’er, keep your supply, I just want answers”.
Not only are they Jealous people but they are Envious too, they want what you have.
“NARCISSISTS ARE A SIDE SHOW..NOTHING MISSING BUT THE POPCORN AND A GRAPE SODA” 😉
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Out of curiosity I looked up this person with the provided links. It’s so sad once these people have been caught out. This person needs to take a good hard look at herself. ………Shameful…… Now her reputation is in tatters. I’m sure her place of employment would not be thrilled, especially when she works with children. ?
Hi all, It’s the lie that ruins everything…relationships, your marriage, the family you created with the narcissist. Whether your the primary , secondary source is irrelevant. The heart of narcissist dysfunction is that they lead you to believe you are special and the only one they want to be with.
They’ll rush relationships pushing to move in, get married , have kids after only a few months …whatever to cement their permanent hold over you and use your empathy , your good Christian nature against you to their sole advantage.
And yes they’ll treat you (the one who loved, cares, supports them) like [email protected] and the outsiders like royalty . And that’s because they want to control how others who really don’t know them perceive them, whereas the us (the people closest to them ) who really sees the true dysfunctional person they are is treated with such cruelty with the intentions of dismantling our self esteem. Thereby making it difficult to stand up to them or leave them. And if we do stand up to them, they throw accusations that we are the messed up ones and make us question our own reality thereby driving us crazy as to believing their lies and manipulation.
This comment is so spot on!
It describes the narc I was with to a T!! lol
Gosh, I could write a book.
He has a lot of people so gravely fooled, its disgusting…smh
Evil, lying, spineless coward!???
@ Niles G => That’s why a relationship with a narcissist can NEVER work our nor last. It’s like building a house in quicksand on an earthquake-prone neighbourhood. Whatever life you build with them, they will tear down because it’s in their nature to destroy everything good. A narcissist is at a constant struggle with themselves. They can’t find peace nor fill that empty void within them. Not even the blessings of children, family and marriage can complete them, that’s how messed up they are. And the worst part of it all is because they know, they are hurting and miserable inside, they want to spread their pain to others. They always are treating others so much better, but when it comes to us, we are their play toys to be discarded when they no longer need us.
Spot on… These people …narcissist are monsters and in fact are evil people . The best thing to do is to stop your tears , never beg them nor let them see you cry over them because they feed off that . Remember, you weren’t in a relationship but rather a manipulationship! No sense grieving over the loss of a person that wasn’t real.
Cut them off completely. No texting , no emailing , no social media , change your number or block them. Focus on picking up the pieces of your life and heal. Put your faith with God rather than within a person. And importantly don’t end up like a hermit, closing off your life permanently to people. You deserve a second chance to find true love .
YOU ARE SO RIGHT. NARCISSIST ARE LIARS AND THIEVES AND MANIPULATIVE AND CON ARTISTS AND PSYCHOTIC PEOPLE. THEY ARE DEMONS FROM THE PIT OF HELL.
@Reba J – VERY TRUE ?????
I asked my therapist yesterday what the difference is between all these Cluster B types and general domestic abuse (emotional/physical). Point being, they are all maladjusted and can’t be cured. There is a point of no return when no amount of apology could repair a failed relationship or change an emotionally sick person no matter what the label is. It is who they are! All of this education is fantastic to see the signs before your heart or your precious time is wasted. If you’re highly sensitive, these breakups are far more painful than any other. I hope this woman has come to her senses as she’s just been made to look like a fool.
J Bats Extremely TRUE! ?????????✌??????
To anyone who reads this, I hope I can help at least one person with this post. Understand that what happened to us was one of the most messed up things that one could do to another person. These narcs poison our brains in a way that is unimaginable. Being I’ve been through it studied Cluster B’s for years and also helped many people across the globe.
The 1# best piece of advice in healing I give to them and to you all is to realize that “NO CONTACT” means a lot more than just not calling or texting. Looking at a picture of them, reading a letter they wrote to you, looking at a saved text, wearing a piece of clothing they bought you, checking their social media. All of that is considered contact in the mind of a Narc. It reopens your wounds every time you break the 1# rule. And in some cases starts the healing process all over again for some individuals.
Throw away all pics of them, delete all saved texts, do not go on their social media(most damaging of them all), throw away or burn any clothes & gifts that remind you of them or anything else you saved that you’re holding on to the hope they will return. Narcs by us gifts so when they discard us they know that gift is something that will trigger us, keep you tied to them, keep you hoping they will return, trick you into thinking they actually cared.
I never once checked the ex’s social media since the day she discarded me. But I won’t sit here and I’m better than anyone else for doing so. But you know what, I held onto pics and gifts. Those things reopened my wounds every time I looked at them. I ended up burning it all or giving it away. It truly is mind-boggling how we can get triggered by them from simply looking at a picture. I know for certain if I ever checked her social media even years later I would end up in a lot of pain. Also, understand the world is breeding these kinds of evil people at an alarming rate. Be aware, stay alert, know the red flags and last and most importantly, listen to your intuition.
You ladies are a blessing and we all appreciate the knowledge you are spreading to the masses. Happy healing to everyone!
☝️ Thank you for the comment @ Gab R. This is so very true.
No Contact is the best form of action. for your own sanity.
Best advice. Blessed ?
I just really hope y’all are aware that “Labels complicate things,” translates clearly into, “I want to eat my cake and fuck other women too.” I just hope y’all know that. If he’s not “ready” for a relationship, then leave his ass alone and stop treating him like he’s your man.
Narcissists don’t do relationships, PERIOD!!!
Self-respect is where it’s at. Clearly this woman does not have any ?♀️
@ Love From CA – What if it’s you’re the one saying that? ?
@ The Writer => Hahaha well, then more power to you! Just be honest about your intentions and you can do stunning ?
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