Does Cleveland Wright Jr Know What He Is Doing Is Wrong?
YES! Narcissists do know what they are doing is wrong. If they didn’t they would not try and hide their unfair hurtful and abusive behavior. How else would they employ the use of the tactics they use so skillfully!
They use tactics to hide what they truly are, you simply cannot use tactics to blame some one else for the behavior if you are not aware of your actions.
They can easily switch off their false self to their true self at the flip of the switch. How else do you think the narcissist can easily go from demeaning and belittling you, to charming you when someone walks in the room?
Narcissists are truly GREAT MANIPULATORS.
They can lie, cheat, treat you badly and some how to manage to make it all seem to like it’s your fault. Don’t fall for it, that’s just what they do. They are a case of arrested development. They live in the mindset of a child. Like a child, THEY KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN RIGHT AND WRONG but choose to do wrong when they can get away with it.
They are determined to remain children who always get their way and like all spoiled brats who control everyone by temper tantrums and bad behavior they only get worse with the more, they get away with.
They are notorious for placing blame on other people and not on themselves. Even when they clearly and definitely did something wrong, they cannot and will not ACCEPT RESPONSIBILITY. They almost always deflect the blame somewhere else. Narcissists IGNORE their contribution to the situation or insist that the other person made them do it.
When you confront the narcissist about their abusive behaviors, their telling lies, their cheating, or anything else they do to hurt others, THEY WILL FOCUS ON YOUR REACTION TO THEIR OUTRAGEOUS BEHAVIOR, DRAWING ATTENTION AWAY FROM THEIR OWN CONDUCT AND PUTTING THE FOCUS ON YOU INSTEAD.
Narcissist’s know exactly what they are doing, they just cannot allow something bad to be their fault. It is another manifestation of their supreme SELF CENTREDNESS as well as a PROTECTION FOR THEIR FRAGILE EGO. It is also a primitive method of avoiding external repercussions.
They’ve got it all worked out, pushing good people to their very limit. Knowing very well that you have a breaking point and when the narcissist succeeds as they so often do, they sit back and watch as you crack under the pressure and torment. You have been deeply hurt, isolated and misunderstood. The narcissist knows your reaction will direct attention away from him/her.
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